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MATURING, HEALING, GROWING, OPENING, FLOWING AND SHARING. (PART 1) One of the great secrets of our proposal for human transformation is the understanding that we are ALL in process.


A methodology based on the acceptance and unconditionality of those who implement it.

“Global transformation begins when we incorporate the other into our heart. This is because humanity works from a place of resentment towards the external “

In the cover photo is Elián Varela (One of our facilitators teachers and mentors) supporting Sergio Sanz (One of our international integrators), in a therapeutic moment that we share in intimacy when we work deeply, because we know that the quality of what we offer depends to a large extent on the quality of our own inner evolution process.

Many facilitators, integrators or therapists cannot continue with the process we propose in internal training, because they reach a point where the price of turning the page is very high, it feels like initiating a future means you have to pay the entrance fee with your whole past in order to enter into that mystery; for this reason many prefer to continue on their way outside of our organization, but people arrive and stay who are those more willing to go deeper.

We meet every month to do our own internal retreats, where we take ancestral medicines, do therapies on each other, confront ourselves and bring to light all that is in the shadow of our unconscious; in this way we can detect what is there in order to immerse ourselves in the roots and dissolve any limitations that interfere with the manifestation of our essence.

The processes of evolution of my people is the maximum guarantee that I can offer to all the people who participate in our retreats. When I say “my” people, I say it seriously and with consciousness, because I live it as something personal and also because each one of them is ‘mine’ in the sense that I have introduced them into my heart, I love each of them because they are inside of me, I accept them, and that is why I support them from that part of me that is so grateful to have transcended so much of the nonsense that did not allow me to be and express what I am. My mission is to support them in their process of flourishment. You cannot support anyone who is not accepted. You cannot love anyone onto whom you put conditions. You cannot be in harmony with another if you do not incorporate them into you.

Every person who is part of this organization is at a different point – excitingly challenging, mysteriously unrepeatable, surprisingly perfect – within the individual process they are realising. This internal evolution process of those who accompany me in this project of international expansion of inner expertise, is based on UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE. Sorry for the redundancy but accepting and being unconditional are the same thing seen from two different angles.

Acceptance arises from a self that has matured and has left behind the need to reject, that has understood the perfection of all things, that no longer needs to project in others, ending up a slave to acceptance. Not being able to reject is something tremendously confrontational for an ego that lives in criticism and judgment, but it is something that comes naturally when consciousness has expanded to the point that it has included and incorporated others into the heart. Unconditionality arises from a Being that has evolved to the point that they can be reflected in others when looking beyond limitations. Between rejection and acceptance, comes the debate on whether or not to take the leap from the I AM ME and YOU ARE YOU, to the I AM YOU and YOU ARE ME. Acceptance brings us together and merges us with the other.

To be unconditional is to love without conditions, it does not depend on others being a certain way, but rather on the internal decision to see all living creatures as a part of oneself. Love should stop being called love, because it is a very contaminated word, loaded with erroneous interpretations; but the word and concept of unconditionality does not give rise to confusion or misinterpretation. Unconditionality is related to infinity and eternity, with the spiritual gaze of oneself and others; it happens when we can see the light and the potentiality of others as if they had no limitations or darkness. You look at others with such purity of heart that a loving and conscious indulgence arises that reaches deep into the heart of the other and awakens the inspiration to begin to see in the same way that they are watching you from outside. When this happens, it is because you are on the threshold of compassion. You can no longer enter the game of egos or pay attention to movements that emerge from any limitation.

For me compassion is the KINDNESS that arises from a heart that looks inside the other with purity inside and outside; this attitude is manifested in the treatment of oneself and of all people.

In the same way that we look at ourselves, we look at you. The way we see how you look at us, we can check the place and moment of your inner evolution. And I want to take advantage of this situation to ask you that anything you may see in us, besides being able to say it and express it with sincerity and without hesitation, that you use it to immerse yourself inside your heart and see where that perception comes from. This is one of the secrets that we use in our psychotherapeutic integrations, to be able to differentiate between what we see outside that activates us, and what we see inside that is projected outside. Detecting everything external that moves us, taking charge of the fact that the origin is inside us sets-free the external that bothers us and we use it to our advantage to start an internal dive in search of the great treasure – whatever is hiding behind the reasons why we still reject.

Rejection is the hard core of conditioning and of our limitations, which is why it represents the turning point between being healthy or sick, psycho-emotionally speaking. Accepting or rejecting are options that, sooner-or-later, appear along the way, and suddenly they cannot coexist, they cannot continue together. The decision of which road to choose, marks a before and after in the inner evolution of any person. To reject? Or to accept?

While we journey along the path, flowing, moving forward, evolving, traveling … we discover that the process is an eternal gerund because it cannot stop and no conclusion can be drawn at any time, it is changing and is changing magically, little by little it is getting closer and closer to the light, restoring more and more connection with the essence and the divinity that we carry inside. This internal process of personal development should be called PROCESSING.

To accept and be unconditional is not to be perfect or to be enlightened, but simply to be Evolving Inwardly. Thus, we have coined the description of the process where whenever rejections arise we will be willing to receive them without conditions, and that whenever any condition arises we will be ready to accept them without judgement. If we can use unconditionality and acceptance in everything that arises in our life, we will be on a path that will inevitably lead us to flourishment.

As we affirm in the School where we train our facilitators and therapists: “Healing is not a state that is reached by doing something, but it is an attitude that is acquired to face what happens to us”.

NO FORM OR REJECTION NOR ANY CONDITION WILL STOP US OR WILL STOP YOU! All together, navigating in the same river of evolution, flowing into the sea of consciousness, letting go of the past to open the heart to trust.

Alberto José Varela

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Alberto José Varela

Fundador de empresas y organizaciones; creador de técnicas, métodos y escuelas; autor de varios libros. Estudiante autodidacta, investigador y conferencista internacional, con una experiencia de más de 40 años en la gestión organizacional y los RRHH. Actualmente crece su influencia en el ámbito motivacional, terapéutico y espiritual a raíz del mensaje evolutivo que transmite.

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