HOW TO BREAK THE CHAINS THAT HAVE TIED US TO PAST EXPERIENCES?
Leaving behind the powerful influences of the past to live in the fullness and abundance of the here and now.
Each time we try to solve something in our lives, we must retrace, almost inevitably, the footprints of the past until we reach the point where we got lost. Solving means going deeper into the roots. The option of just abating the symptoms now makes no sense for many, who want to go straight to the root and cut it, finding the causes that produce the suffering.
We can observe in our daily lives, the different areas in which unresolved family problems are reflected. Within the different systems from which we came, and that we form part of, there is a main system that we are tied to: the family system. We spend our lives tied to a family history, a narrative, a rigid outlook that is limited by the deeds of previous generations; these loyalties to our system of origin may drive us to lead a life that is not our own.
It’s as if, unconsciously, we want to be faithful to a family legacy that makes us unhappy. To this loyalty we add our own traumas and shadows, that we all have in varying degrees, but that many of us deny looking at for fear of not being able to overcome them or that they will make us suffer. Resistance to go in and see what happened wears us down internally. This is how we are losing our vital energy, our opportunities to evolve, and to live our true life. The wounds are in command almost without our realizing it, because with each movement we feel the reflection of the pain that comes from those psycho-emotional blows we received in the past.
To go to the past is not only to access the roots of our suffering, but also a start to the journey in reconquering our soul, that is just on the other side of all the limitations. Looking back is to go to the origin, to install ourselves in the place where love, comprehension, and power dwell.
The unconscious links to our parents affect our existence, our way of living life, and our relationships. Our parents can be nearby or far away, alive or dead, but they are in us, influencing us.
Healing the relationship with our parents means healing the relationship with ourselves, with the part of us that had created the link with our progenitors. If that part of you, which is creating your current relationships with things and persons, is not healed then there will be no sustainable changes, no natural changes. However, this internal healing goes beyond, because it also opens the door to reconciliation with others and with everything around you. The dissatisfaction that we have towards others and with everyday situations mostly comes from the impotence that we feel for not having been able to create our life according to the way our soul wanted.
If you want to leave behind what no longer serves you, or blocks and limits you, and you want, instead, to live in freedom, love, gratitude, peace, NOW is the moment. Because when the comprehension comes of what is happening to us, the exit door of our problem opens. Many say to us: “I want to heal my life.” “I need to fix this from the very bottom of this miserable situation.” “The moment has arrived for me to take the leap.”
The systemic therapists of Inner Mastery have created a retreat tailored to your needs:
SYSTEMIC LIBERATION RETREAT
For more than 20 years we have been investigating the generational impact in our lives: family constellations, psycho-genealogy, systemic movements, and other methods, all of which have given us clues to find, with our specific focus, a proposal that goes straight to the center of the matter, honoring our style of depth, and following, unwaveringly, the direction that is required to traverse this path of systemic liberation.
It’s exactly like starting an energetic escape from the psycho-emotional prison cell in which we are locked up.
This retreat is designed to accompany you to deepen and advance your process of inner evolution, by means of different tools like the systemic perspective, family constellations, body movement, bio-dance, dynamic integration, No-Therapy, meditation, healthy eating, and above all the experience of the facilitators who are intimately connected to the solutions we propose.
We use different tools to deepen your self-knowledge; as you become aware of your limiting beliefs you will be able to free blockages. This cocktail of resources for personal development allows us to comprehend and release old patterns of living that make us suffer, and also to know what is limiting our fulfillment in any area of life: relationship with our partner, parents, children, work, money, health, etc..
Also the body movement will allow us to recalibrate ourselves, integrate and transcend energies, emotions, and rigidity, to find a renewed outlook and feel a healing vibration that pushes us toward the changes we need.
“Liberation is the natural result of an ensemble of conscious movements that have as their purpose to rescue the soul trapped in the past.”
Although we have to go through painful memories, although we can’t avoid going through unpleasant feelings with our parents, it is healing to know that beyond the hate, the rejection, and the wounds caused, is the love and recognition for those who brought us to life; when our soul accesses this fountain of gratitude and love, we recover the place that was lost. The jail was simply being outside of our home.
Text by Alberto José Varela and Marta Manasés.
Retreat and program created by Marta Manasés: [email protected]
THESE RETREATS WILL BE HELD IN SPAIN: BARCELONA, MADRID AND MARBELLA. ITALY: ROME AND MILAN. HOLAND: EINDHOVEN. GERMANY: BERLIN AND MUNICH. MEXICO, URUGUAY AND ARGENTINA.
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You can consult this article that explains our outlook and how we approach family and generational aspects in relation to the healing of traumas, overcoming limitations, and the liberation of generational pressure: